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The thing about not-being-a-person is:
They will say those people and the price of being a person is to nod and agree that yes, those people aren’t people at all.
They will have no idea who they are talking to.
You yourself will start to forget, too.
They will say a million small things that sow the seeds for violence done against you, and you will smile and let them.
You will do math, constantly.
How much do I want to be a person today? How much do I want this …
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Julia Bascom on 03/5/12 | 2 Comments | Read More
We’re Back (Housekeeping)
Servers placated; more better backups in place.
For those of you who caught the alternate-reality/time-travel sidetrip to the Shift Journal of 2005, no charge.
Regular posting will resume tomorrow.[Read More]
Mark Stairwalt on 05/26/11 | No Comments | Read More
How to Live With an Introvert Roommate
To comfortably share an abode with a Subtle sort of person, one must extend but one basic principle to all dealings:
-Reduce social obligation and friction of association.
I must begin by explaining t[Read More]
Zygmunt on 05/23/11 | No Comments | Read More
What Does “Play” Look Like?
Back when Willy was diagnosed with autism, we were told about all the things he would “never” do. Anyone who has read this blog for a while probably realizes that all these things the doctor said[Read More]
Stephanie Allen Crist on 05/20/11 | 4 Comments | Read More
Cohabiting with Autism
“Moms living with autism share their stories!” the headline proclaims. I know what it means. I know what it always means. And I know it will provoke some degree of wrath in me, but I click it a[Read More]
Guest on 05/19/11 | No Comments | Read More
The Eternal Song, Part Five: Gifts
Tahu-at had meant to speak with Awiyan early in the day, but she was in the temple. No man could set foot there. A small cave, nestled into the side of the valley and sacred to the Earth Goddess, it[Read More]
Gwen McKay on 05/18/11 | No Comments | Read More
Redundancy Cushioning
Most Westerners hold mass society as the self evident highest virtue.
Yet mass society is a force of nature independent of human needs and desires.
Mass society can be considered independent from thes[Read More]
Zygmunt on 05/16/11 | 3 Comments | Read More
Autism, Disability, and the Obligation to Get Well, Part Two
As a result, we find ourselves in the vortex of a great deal of distortion for wanting to simply be at peace with ourselves and carve out a meaningful life. It’s as though, having given up our “p[Read More]
Rachel Cohen-Rottenberg on 05/13/11 | No Comments | Read More
Autism, Disability, and the Obligation to Get Well, Part One
I’ve recently begun reading Robert Murphy’s The Body Silent, one of the great books on the social and cultural context of disability. Murphy, a professor of anthropology at Columbia, became a qua[Read More]
Rachel Cohen-Rottenberg on 05/13/11 | No Comments | Read More
The Eternal Song, Part Four: Midsummer
Awiyan woke screaming before dawn, gripped by terror that had no name. In her dream she had seen the village on a sunny day, with everyone going about their usual work. Then a dark cloud swept into [Read More]
Gwen McKay on 05/11/11 | 1 Comment | Read More
The Listener Test
“At work today, I was socializing with two extroverted co-workers. I wasn’t completely comfortable, but I was able to get a few words in every once in a while. Then, a third extrovert came up, and[Read More]
Zygmunt on 05/9/11 | No Comments | Read More
It’s Not About Us: Debunking Neurodiversity’s Hero Myth
Avedon Carol at The Sideshow marked the passing of writer Joanna Russ this week in a post that quoted Russ’ observation that ”Homophobia isn’t there to keep homosexuals in line. Homophobia is th[Read More]
Mark Stairwalt on 05/6/11 | 14 Comments | Read More
You keep using that word …
“Bullying” seems to be the word of the week here in the autistosphere, and some much-needed attention is being given the harm done by bullies and their supporters. There seems, however, to be a b[Read More]
Guest on 05/5/11 | 1 Comment | Read More
The Eternal Song, Part Three: Hunters or Hunted
Already the sun had traveled well past its midpoint, and Tahu-at had not seen even one antelope. They were fewer each year, as the settlers took more of the island’s grasslands to pasture their she[Read More]
Gwen McKay on 05/4/11 | 4 Comments | Read More
A Glimpse of Success
… And, for me, that’s success. Explanation. Acceptance. Move on.
Maybe it’s lack of imagination, but I really don’t envision a time where everyone just understands. I communicate with [Read More]
Stephanie Allen Crist on 05/3/11 | 2 Comments | Read More
The Irony of Modern Individualism
Members of the modern industrialized world are typically individualists in the sense of each individual competing for maximum gain with every other and thereby raising overall standards for all.
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Zygmunt on 05/2/11 | No Comments | Read More
When Is a Disability Not a Disability? Autism Speaks Has the Answer
When is a disability not a disability? When it is a “disorder.” Geri Dawson of Autism Speaks made that clear yesterday in her report out from the Research and Innovation session at the White H[Read More]
Guest on 04/29/11 | 12 Comments | Read More
Color (a modest plea)
“It [autism] delays the most — delays or impairs for life —
the most human thing we have, which is our ability to look
into each other’s eyes and feel that other person’s existence and what [Read More]
Nicole Nicholson on 04/28/11 | 5 Comments | Read More
The Eternal Song, Part Two: Rehearsal
As she had been taught, Wiilu took a deep breath and imagined strong magical energy flowing through her body before she began to sing. She was to be a vessel only, a conduit between earth and sky, a v[Read More]
Gwen McKay on 04/27/11 | 3 Comments | Read More
Recovery from JSD–My family’s journey
When my husband and I were about to become new parents, we were typically excited, and also typically naive. We fantasized about our new family and the life our daughter, Serenity Grace, would have. [Read More]
Guest on 04/26/11 | No Comments | Read More
Social Choreography/The Mark of Cain
Quite simply, some of us never picked up basic social norms during childhood. Consider: one can almost tell a Brit and an American apart by their age lines. Each adheres to a different set of ortho[Read More]
Zygmunt on 04/25/11 | No Comments | Read More
She’s Such a Scream (Is there a transitive property to autistic characteristics?)
Coffeehouse musicians sometimes employ a bit of stage banter that plays on everyone’s rudimentary knowledge of music theory; following a well-received song, they will with tongue-in-cheek earnestnes[Read More]
Mark Stairwalt on 04/22/11 | 2 Comments | Read More
The Eternal Song, Part One: Beauty
Looking down into the narrow ravine, the goatherd Ko-ato saw only a glimpse of the swift-running stream beneath the laurel trees. The sound of its rushing waters, fed by snowmelt from the island’s v[Read More]
Gwen McKay on 04/20/11 | No Comments | Read More
An Open Letter to Robert MacNeil Regarding PBS’ Autism Now Series
Dear Mr. MacNeil,
It has come to my attention that you are spreading dehumanizing stereotypes about us. In an interview to promote your upcoming series, Autism Now (formerly Autism Today), you said t[Read More]
Rachel Cohen-Rottenberg on 04/18/11 | 7 Comments | Read More
The Myth of Introvert Sociopathy
The stereotype in real life and in Hollywood is that serial killers or those who go on shooting rampages are nearly always described as being “really quiet.” I have repeatedly had people jokingly[Read More]
Zygmunt on 04/18/11 | No Comments | Read More
Autism Acceptance for Autism Awareness Month
Well, Shakers and public, it is April, and that can only mean one thing to this autistic blogger: Autism Awareness Month is here for another 30 days, and without a time machine, there’s no escaping[Read More]
Guest on 04/15/11 | 1 Comment | Read More
Ableism on Display: The New York Times Review of Wretches and Jabberers
The March 31 issue of the New York Times includes a short review of the film Wretches and Jabberers, a documentary that details the work of two autistic men as they travel the world to change hearts a[Read More]
Rachel Cohen-Rottenberg on 04/13/11 | No Comments | Read More
Absolution
If the very existence of one’s proclivities and personality is deemed an illness, a blight, simply the wrong answer to what society desires: …
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Zygmunt on 04/11/11 | 3 Comments | Read More
Because Screaming Gets Boring After a While
I’d been on something of a hiatus from online autism advocacy, because I’ve had a real life, and because even my perseverant spirit can occasionally be worn down by circular arguments upon circula[Read More]
Guest on 04/8/11 | No Comments | Read More
Finding Balance
We’ve recently had some discussion here on Shift Journal about Dan Haggard’s article on the hacker/artist divide, in which he points out that the two groups are much more alike than they may seem.[Read More]
Gwen McKay on 04/6/11 | 6 Comments | Read More
Autistics Speaking Day
Being autistic is being set up to fail again and again, and having your inevitable failure attributed to your disordered brain.
Being autistic is being set up to fail again and again, and succeeding a[Read More]
Guest on 04/5/11 | 1 Comment | Read More
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